Have A Great Life, Career & Relationship!
Live your life, remember that you came into this world alone and you will leave it alone. Don’t make anyone the centre of your universe. If you take the time to work on yourself, learn who you are, what you like and what you don’t. Then you won’t ever have to worry, about not being in a relationship. If you have Life Goals and Career Goals which you are actively pursuing, then you will be a happy and fulfilled individual. Guess what, people are always attracted to people who are living life to the full and pursuing their dreams. We are drawn to these people because they are fun and interesting. They are to busy being themselves and following their own interests, to spend time worrying about what anyone else thinks about them. They have confidence in themselves and in their decisions and they would never let their happiness depend on what anyone else says or does.
This is the recipe for a great life a great career and a great relationship and the basic ingredient is self confidence. With high self confidence you can achieve anything, with no self confidence, you will achieve nothing.
The Relationship Do’s and Don’ts below are the bases of a self confident individual who has a healthy relationship with themselves.
RELATIONSHIP DO’S
Do: -
• Understand that YOU are the most important person in your life.
• Value Yourself
• Love Yourself
• Understand that you CAN’T give to others until you have given to yourself.
• Eat Healthily
• Exercise
• Be Kind to yourself
• Know Yourself
• Have Boundaries
• Have Goals
• Have a good career that you Love
• Let Them do the chasing
RELATIONSHIP DON’T’S
DON’T: -
• Let YOUR happiness depend on what someone else does
• Make Yourself TOO Available
• Tell everyone, everything about you
• Wait around for someone else to Fill YOUR LIFE
• Give up your Life the minute that you begin a new relationship
• Give up your hobbies
• Give up your friends
• Do all of the Work in the relationship
• Chase Anyone
If you follow my Relationship DO’s and Don’ts then you will soon have radiant self confidence which will attract people to you and soon, dinner for one will be a thing of the past.
© Theresa Sives 2012
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Thank you for your kind words, it’s always good to hear people say that they read and enjoy the site.
Best, Theresa
Hi Theresa,
This is just a quickie, I am on the 100 Comments Challenge so haven’t much time this month.
You seem to be attracting a lot of spam comments to your blog, I have had about 200 so far and I just delete them.
Will visit again soon.
Regards,
Bill
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Thanks!
Right on, Theresa.
My marriage became so much stronger (and more fun!) once my wife and I began to love ourselves FIRST.
In the beginning of our relationship we were dependent on each other and neither of us even knew what co-dependent meant!
Only after we became independent could we start acting interdependent but the fear and apprehension we both felt at letting each other go is still something I can easily recall.
Being a shell of a person and emulating someone else is easy. Being ourselves and admitting & loving our differences / foibles is tough.
Maybe this is what we mean when we say tough love.
Outstanding post, ma’am. Thank you.
Barry
ok got it!
Hi Folks
I don’t mind you quoting from my articles as long as you acknowledge me as the author and link back to my site.
Good luck with your endeavours!
Best, Theresa
Hi Barry
My mind boggles at the concept of you being anyone but you!
You are completely unique and one of a kind, in fact I would recommend that anyone who is struggling to “be themselves”, have a look at your blog.
You are independent, self reliant and out there. In fact (as I’ve said to you before), sometimes you are so WAY OUT THERE that I wonder if we are on the same planet.
I love your fearlessness – long may you reign!
Best, Theresa
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