There is an E book called Acres of Diamonds which was written by Russell H Conwell. The story tells of a wealthy and contented farmer who tends his land for many years. One day he receives a visitor who tells him all about the riches of copper, silver, gold & diamonds buried in the crusts [...]

When we love someone, we want the best for that person and we accept them for who they are. We want to do things that will make them happy although, we must be careful not to smother them with our undivided attention. We don’t need to buy them either, by continually showering them with gifts. [...]

Live your life, remember that you came into this world alone and you will leave it alone. Don’t make anyone the centre of your universe. If you take the time to work on yourself, learn who you are, what you like and what you don’t. Then you won’t ever have to worry, about not being [...]

This could be the shortest post that I have ever written because there is no Relationship Rule Book. The beauty of relationships is that we can create the kind of relationship that we want. I say that we CAN create the kind of relationship that we want however, sadly, the vast majority of us don’t. [...]

I speak to people all the time who tell me that they worked 60 plus hours each week, they are now dependant on drugs or alcohol (as a coping mechanism), and the only thing that they are sure about, is that their relationship is fine.    Of course the relationship is NOT fine, how can [...]

What is it about “love” that when it’s clearly going wrong, makes us think that the way to make it better, is to “love” even more”.  Come to think about it, isn’t there an old quote that says “that the only cure for love is to love even more”.   Well (in my opinion), it’s all [...]

One of the saddest things is when you have found someone that you really love and care for (and they love you too); however, you just can’t seem to make it work. Millions of people find themselves trapped in this sanario and they just cannot find a way out. They try desperately to change something [...]

Have you seen the latest cringe inducing interviews with Tiger Woods? I heard an interview with a psychologist this morning which followed yet another apology from Tiger. To my dismay both the interviewer and the psychologist felt that Tiger was not truly sorry. The gist of the exchange seemed to be, that Tiger is a [...]

Do you know what the single most cause of unhappiness is?   Relationships, or more specifically, unhappy relationships. Unhappy relationships account for more frustration, despair and stress than anything else that you could name. Yes, I know that lack of money is no fun either however, the drive to be loved, accepted and appreciated makes [...]

To get different results then we have to do things differently.  I suggest, that if you are single and you want to meet someone you could:   • Make eye contact and smile (that’s to everyone), not just to the people that you like. • Speak to people that you wouldn’t normally speak too. • Make [...]