This is a first class video about the power of visualisation and why we must use it carefully. This is another spin in the old message of “as you think so you are”. This message is, as you see your life or picture it to be, so it will be. It is the self fulfilling [...]

This is a great motivational speach by Zig Ziglar. With humour, Zig focuses on how we depreciate what we have, until it is almost worthless to us and how easy it is to turn this around.

One of the saddest things is when you have found someone that you really love and care for (and they love you too); however, you just can’t seem to make it work. Millions of people find themselves trapped in this sanario and they just cannot find a way out. They try desperately to change something [...]

Have you seen the latest cringe inducing interviews with Tiger Woods? I heard an interview with a psychologist this morning which followed yet another apology from Tiger. To my dismay both the interviewer and the psychologist felt that Tiger was not truly sorry. The gist of the exchange seemed to be, that Tiger is a [...]

Life Goals & Goal Setting! If goals are nothing more than dreams with a time line, then why is it that most of the people talking about Goal Setting, manage to make them sound so boring? If you want some free help and the opportunity to make your dreams a reality, then I have a [...]

Do you know what the single most cause of unhappiness is?   Relationships, or more specifically, unhappy relationships. Unhappy relationships account for more frustration, despair and stress than anything else that you could name. Yes, I know that lack of money is no fun either however, the drive to be loved, accepted and appreciated makes [...]

To get different results then we have to do things differently.  I suggest, that if you are single and you want to meet someone you could:   • Make eye contact and smile (that’s to everyone), not just to the people that you like. • Speak to people that you wouldn’t normally speak too. • Make [...]

Too soon old, to late wise! These wise words are not my own however, I echo them.  The relationship which I hope to build with you my reader will I hope be interactive.  I hope to share with you what has worked for me over the years and for your part, I hope that you [...]

Is there anyone out there married or not, in any long term relationship who could not benefit from a book like this.  I have never subscribed to the view that people see their marriages as disposable.  In fact, if anything, my view is that most people continue to try to apply sticking plasters to relationships [...]

At last, a relationship guide for divorced women, from a man who doesn’t think that women are from a different planet (although he does still think that they are fundamentally different).  This guide is written in an empathetic style by a man who really does want to break down the barriers and misunderstandings between the [...]